My sweetie is training the chickadees to eat sunflower seeds out of his hand. This has the side effect of the chickadees eating out of my hand too. Such joy!
We give the chickadees a handout. Why is it so much easier to give them some food than it is to give to the panhandlers in town?
A friend who works with the homeless says she never gives money, but she might offer a snack of some sort. Sometimes, i buy an extra bag of chips so that i can give it to a panhandler near the grocery store. I also quiz him on whether he's had lunch at the church. Two churches in town offer lunches 5 days a week. The Overnight Shelter offers supper 7 nights a week.
Freeloaders irritate us. Freeloading goes against the grain. How do we distinguish between freeloading and genuine need?
We are confident that the chickadees are not freeloading. If we didn't have an opinion about the panhandlers, we wouldn't be stressed by thoughts such as
They're freeloading. He should get a job. Get away from me!
We are the ones who are uncomfortable, yet we blame our discomfort on "them."
When we feel joy, we "blame" our joy on them--the chickadees.
Can i treat the next panhandler as a chickadee, give him a little bit to eat, and feel the joy of my generosity?
