Saturday, July 28, 2018
My neighbor has yellow cosmos growing in her garden.
“But Cosmos is pink or white, not yellow.” her friends tell her.
Sure enough, she has yellow cosmos. Sulphur cosmos—a beautiful, rich yellow-orange cosmos.
Sometimes, we express tough love by saying No. Our friends may judge us, “Well, that’s not loving. That’s not right. That doesn’t feel good. Love is soft pink or pure white. Love is not cautious amber yellow.” But sometimes, saying no is more loving than saying yes. Consider the families of wheedling addicts. No can be heart-breaking, but Yes winds up extending the heartbreak into months and years.
Sometimes Yes or Love looks like Sulphur cosmos