My bird feeder is squirrel-proof, but it is not bear-proof.
The bears are awake and trundling through the garden. No kidding. It is definitely time to stop feeding the birds and store the bird feeders away until it snows again next December.
Don't feed the bears.
And don't feed the bear of a problem that lives in your mind either.
First of all identify the food with which you are nourishing that bear of a problem: worry? anxiety? impatience? anger? frustration?
Notice that "nourishment" every time it arises. Simply notice it.
Then feel how that worry-anxiety-impatience-anger feels in your body.
Really become interested in the sensations of that uncomfortable, unpleasant, grrrr feeling.
Label those body sensations.
Keep your attention on the sensations.
Notice the changes.
When you're ready, practice some self-compassion.
|Note the hanger, bent from a C to a V. Somebody was hanging on the bird feeder!|