I have a cauliflower in my garden! You may object to the black and brown spots on it, but listen to my thrill. I have a cauliflower! How many times have i planted cauliflower to harvest exactly zero?
It's true i have one and only one cauliflower, and i love it, no matter what it looks like, no matter that the slugs ate the north side of it. They left the rest for me.
Love doesn't care what the beloved looks like--old or young, short or tall. Love only loves.
The world judges. "Oh, your cauliflower has spots." "Oh, your cauliflower is not perfectly round."
Love doesn't care. Love only loves.